So Christmas has passed and this week people traditionally do some sort of Year In Review process – examining what went right and what went differently than they had had hoped or expected.

As my end of year special gift to you,

I’d like to help you say BYE-BYE 2010

in the Infinite Inner Power way!

Are you ready to harness the powerful Universal energies that are present NOW to release all your negative energy from 2010?

As a result of the confluence of last week’s Winter Solstice, the full Lunar Eclipse, the Full Moon AND Mercury in Retrograde, the planets are aligned and configured in an extraordinary pattern that has not happened for over 300 years!  So let’s put ALL that extraordinary ENERGY to good use!

As my gift to you, on December 31st, as the sun sets here in Las Vegas, I will hold a Sacred Burning Bowl Ceremony to release YOUR 2010 and create space FOR YOU to reclaim ALL of your inner power that has leaked, lunged or was swept away despite your best intentions this year!

Here’s the plan to let go of the old and create the new:

1.            MAKE A LIST

Make a  list of EVERYTHING you want to let go of.  This will be stuff that didn’t go well for you this year :  a relationship that soured, debt that increased, the hurt feelings because someone said or didn’t say something that you interpreted in a painful way.  It could also be physical ailments or conditions.

It could also be getting rid of physical stuff like cleaning out a closet – in which case just DO IT and don’t put it on the list!  Even if you only have 30 minutes to clean out a kitchen drawer – DO IT, dump it and/or donate it!  Honestly that’s a GREAT start!  Physically cleaning out SOMETHING will shift the energy in your physical space and we are always looking to keep energy MOVING!

Now back to the list –

Here’s the top 3 things on my list of letting go:  (1) beating myself up about some financial decisions I made; (2) beating myself up because I gained weight this year; (3) beating myself up because my business hasn’t grown further. (Uh do we see a pattern here? Gulp!)

Don’t limit yourself to 3 things – write them all down – 20 or 200 – the more the better because this is an INCREDIBLE opportunity to reclaim your power for 2011.  The more you get rid of in the fear, guilt, pain, lack, loss department, the more room you are creating to receive love, light, joy, peace and prosperity!!

Now what to do with the list?


You had a part to be play in everything on that list.  Using my list as an example:  (1)  I take ownership of the financial decisions I made that I’m unhappy about.    I made the best choice I could at the time. In hindsight I have regret over it because I NOW recognize that in some cases I didn’t listen to my own intuition.  I created the situations which is a good thing because it also means I have the power to let it go and create differently!  (2) my weight gain – well I picked up the fork too many times and for the wrong reasons.  Acknowledging that gives me my power back, but continuing to beat myself up about – is no better than picking the fork up again and again.

You get the idea here right?  You have to cop that you had a hand in creating the challenges.  Even if it was something like an illness or an accident, there was something in your energetic vibration that made you susceptible to whatever happened.  You were creating a learning experience for yourself!  That’s the good news!  Now we want to learn what we need to and MOVE ON!!!!

(NOTE:  If you don’t see where you played a part in the situation you can do 2 things:  1) ignore it and choose to release it anyway or (2) send me an email (Steph [at] so I can help you.)

3.            GO THE DISTANCE

There is some added power  to the process if you go public with your list.  Going public gets it out of your head and more importantly, out of the hands of your ego.  At a minimum it’s good to cop to what you want to let go of or are feeling guilty about to a trusted friend, spouse or Spiritual Advisor – that’s where I come in!

Here are some suggestions:

1.            Share the list with someone you trust.  The other person simply listens and says “Thank you for sharing this with me. I honor and respect your willingness to release these burdens.”

2.            Post  your list here in the comments section (perhaps not the 200 but the top 20 would be cool!) I will support you as stated in #1.

3.            Send the list to me in a sealed envelope marked BYE BYE 2010!  I promise I will not look in the envelope if it is marked properly.   My mailing address is 2433 E. Tropicana Ave., #455, Las Vegas, NV 89121, U.S.A.

4.            Email the list to me at Steph [at]

4.            THE RELEASE

As my gift to you, on December 31st, as the sun sets here in Las Vegas, I will hold a Sacred Burning Bowl Ceremony for all of the lists I have received via email, snail mail or posted here on the blog (Nos. 2-4 above).  (If you choose to share your list with someone besides me or even just keep it to yourself – that’s cool too of course! Just follow the instructions to below to create your own sacred ceremony.)

The Burning Bowl Ceremony involves moving into a meditative state and placing each of your lists (and mine!) in an appropriate (safe) container (like my BBQ).  I will set them alight and as the smoke rises I will speak a prayer into the Universe to the effect that that the energy of your pains, fears and frustrations is transformed, reshaped and returned to you as Inner Strength, Inner Peace and Love for yourself and for humanity. I will remain in meditation until the all of your prayers have traveled by smoke into the heavens.

As the fire dies out I will send a final prayer of thanksgiving and claim your good in YOUR name for YOU!!

[NOTE: if you do your own ceremony you can choose your own words of course, and you can also choose to simply tear up your list, pour water on it, stomp on it, bury it, anything you want to symbolically let go of the energy.  Conclude your self-styled ceremony with some words of release – "I release and let this go and know that it is done."]

5.  NOW WHAT??

If making the list is easy for you GREAT!

If you are having difficulty with it – please email me:

(Steph [at] and I’ll help you get over the hang ups.

Over the next few days I will post some other helpful tips about releasing and also about setting your intentions to create a truly magnificent and powerful 2011 for you!

Helping you release the old is my gift to you!

You may also  book a session with me at my current PAY AS YOU CHOOSE pricing for the remainder of this year.  My pricing will be changing January 1st so this is a great opportunity for you to get a head start on those New Year’s intentions!

Once you choose the session you want HERE, you’ll receive an email with the link to book your appointment.  I’ll be giving VIP scheduling (within 24 hrs of receipt of payment whenever possible) this week to help you maximize your willingness to make powerful changes!

OK!  Let’s get those lists made and prepare to burn baby burn! Only YOU can make the choice to reclaim your Inner Power NOW!


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  • Perenna Fleming

    This is terrific, Steph…making my list at this moment. This is a great gift, thank you…

  • MJ Schrader


    Thank you for this wonderful gift. :) I appreciate it. On pain meds (meaning a bit loopy) so hopefully I make sense. You are amazing, powerful, you radiate warmth even through the internet it seems to pull me to your tweets and posts.

    1.beating myself for choosing fake friends
    2.for avoiding things rather than dealing or working
    4.not exercising like I should
    5.not building the business like I can
    6.for choosing the energy thing that went so quickly south
    7.for allowing myself to sink further into financial debt
    8.not keeping the house cleaner
    9.not being as good a friend as I should be
    10.for allowing myself to play small

  • Stephanie Rainbow

    MJ –

    It is TRULY my honor to support you in ANY and EVERY way possible! :) At 4:53 PT I will conduct the Sacred Burning Bowl Ceremony and include your list! At that time, (in your time zone), pause for a moment and picture THE ENERGY of this list literally going up in smoke and being released to the Universe! It will be returned to you transformed into magnificent opportunities for you to consciously create your life filled with joy, peace, prosperity and ALL of your heart’s desires! :)

    Rainbow blessings and BIG HUGS to you Dear One!

  • Debbie

    I am doing this also (I’m an energy therapist) and decided…hey, the more the better, so here’s my list for release:

    Any & all self sabotage behaviors
    lack consciousness of any kind
    healing & releasing all that’s no longer desired from DNA
    illness &/or allergies
    removal of 35lbs weight
    transforming any/all negative/unsupportive relationships
    that last final layer of EVERYTHING that has been a trigger
    any/all manipulation & control
    releasing writers block
    negative income outgo
    chaos of any kind
    releasing it all in grace & ease & in deepest love & gratitude for all lessons learned.

    Thank you so very much for what you’re doing for all.

  • Stephanie Rainbow

    Debbie –

    Thank you so much for wanting to participate in multiple ways! That sure shows a LOT of willingness! I LOVE IT!

    Rainbow New Year’s Blessings to you!

  • Suzie Cheel

    Hi Stephanie,

    great idea, here is my list:
    I release
    *all self doubt
    *all thought of lack
    *the need for approval
    *comparing myself to others why are they, etc, etc
    *all fear of what if
    *the 7 kilos I been carrying all of 2010
    *the need to beat up on Suzie because i didn’t do what i said i would do
    *any thoughts that say I am not enough or not good enough
    *all THE clutter and stuff that no longer serves me both physical, mental and emotional and I make it okay to do this over the next 2 weeks- I have started the check lists to tick off as i do- it already makes me feel free. I now let go of the past
    * the need to control
    * projecting my stuff onto Des
    *doing stuff because i feel I should
    and that’s enougth to propel me into a Magical 2011
    love and hugs

  • Dave Grant

    Thanks for being awesome in every way. I have known you for quite a while and shared some rather personal experiences with you and I have really seen a great personal growth in your spirit and keep sharing it with everyone. Happy New Year!! Here is my list!
    1. keep negative thoughts of ill health from my mind , as I tend to think the worse when it really is nothing.
    2. Keep myself motivated in business so I can have my best year ever.
    3.Help me be more supportive to my community and others.
    4.Help me continue to grow and be the best husband and father I can be.

    These are the ones that are most important to me . Thanks again for all you do.

  • LaDawn Grant

    Hi, this is such a great idea to start of the New Year!

    1. I need to get better control of my temper, I lost it way to much with my kids. I am the adult.

    2. My spending habits need to be better managed. It is so easy to justify my purchases.

    3. PROCRASTINATION on anything that needs to get done. Do it now and I will feel better later.

    4. Communicate better with Dave. Don’t let everything be a personal attack, because it is not.

    5. Make eating better a family thing. It is so easy to pull into a takeout place.

    6. I want to get my pictures in order and to share them.

  • Stephanie Rainbow

    Dave –
    We certainly have shared quite a bit since we first met in 2003! I am so grateful for your friendship and your expertise as a Realtor Extraordinaire!

    I am honored to be able to support you in any and every way, any time! :) You know that!!!

    Rainbow blessings for the most magnificent new year!

  • Stephanie Rainbow

    Suzie –

    Thank you soo much for being such a wonderfully supportive friend! You are such a blessing to all who know you!

    Thank you also for allowing me the privilege of assisting you in “dumping your 2010 junk”!

    It is always an honor to serve you!

    Rainbow Blessings!

  • Stephanie Rainbow

    LaDawn –

    How wonderful for you to let this stuff go and create the space for magic and miracles in 2011!

    You are an awesome wife, mother and teacher — and all are blessed by your presence in the world!

    Thank you for allowing me to be of service to you this evening!

    Rainbow blessings to you!

  • BB

    it may be to late to be added to your bowl (I just found this website a second ago..) but I can burn this tomorrow!

    I want to let go of

    1. my fear
    2. the weight I have put on
    3. being so hard on myself
    4. being so unorganized
    5. bad relationships
    6. clutter
    7. unimportant things
    8. beating myself up for things I’ve done in the past
    9. being childish

  • Eleanor

    Thank you soo much for doing this.

    1- I let go of past hurts with my mother
    2- I let go of past hurts with my past relationship
    3- I let go of past hurts with my marriage
    4- I let go of my past hurts with my children
    5- I let go of all I don’t like about myself
    6- I stop beating myself up about past financial descisions I have made
    7- I let go of the extra 30lbs I carry
    8- I let go of all past failings with my children
    9- I stop beating myself up for the lack of relationship with my mother
    10- I release all self doubt

    Love and Blessings to you Stephanie